Thursday, 22 February 2007

Favourite Songs of The Month

In no particular order....songs I cant get enough of right now:

  1. JT - What Goes Around...
  2. JT- My Love
  3. Beyonce - Irreplaceable
  4. The Fray - How To Save A Life
  5. Mika - Grace Kelly
  6. James Morrison - Undiscovered
  7. JoJo - Too Little Too Late
  8. JoJo - Coming For You
  9. P Diddy feat. Christina Aguilera - Tell me
  10. P Diddy feat. Nicole Scherzinger - Come To Me
  11. Kelis - Little Star

Bring it on!!!

xxx

One for all my girls out there....Do ya hear me???

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
One old love she can imagine going back to...
And one who reminds her how far she has come...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
Enough money within her control to move out & rent a place of her own
Even if she never wants to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
Something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
A youth she's content to leave behind...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
One friend who always makes her laugh...
And one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
Eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honoured..

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
A feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love without losing herself...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to quit a job,
Break up with a lover,
and confront a friend
without ruining the friendship...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
When to try harder...
And when to walk away...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That her childhood may not have been perfect..
But it’s over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to live alone...
Even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust,
Whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go...
Be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
Or a charming inn in the woods...
When her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
A month...
And a year...
I thought I would transfer the previous posts from my other blog to here as they are great speeches and food for the soul when you feel down or disheartened. They help you see things in a different light and hopefully more objectively...

So enjoy....

xxx

AFTER A WHILE...

After a while you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of a woman,
Not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today,
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine
Burns if you get too much,
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure....
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth,and you learn and learn....
With every goodbye you learn.
Veronica Shoffstall 1971

DESIDERATA

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak the truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your career, however humble, it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world of full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full heroism. Be yourself.
Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrending the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive him to be. And whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy fusion of life, keep peace in your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Wednesday, 21 February 2007

Hello Hello...

Well....Its 1minute past the midnight hour and I finally managed to get this baby going!!!

I forget that it would be such a chore to think of a valid and suitable address link for this..but, eventually, I did it! Phew..... :-)

So....welcome to my blog space...There will be more entries to this as the days go by so visit as often as you can!!!

For those of you who used to read my other blog, that one is now nil and void and this one has taken it's place.

Trust all is well with one and all....

Hugs

xxx